It is what you do that makes you appear good or bad.
Tara Mohr says Jealousy isn’t inherently wrong or bad. Jealousy is meant to be a cue that informs us about what’s missing in our lives and what we long for. Yup, a helpful cue!
Jealousy becomes problematic when we don’t attend to the desire behind the jealousy. Then we act out in ways that hurt others.
She even has a seven step method to combat this syndrome:
Step 1: Wake Up and Smell the Jealousy.
Step 2: Be Compassionate.
Step 3: Place your hand
Step 4: Investigate
Step 5: Discern
Step 6: Name the Longings
Step 7: Own It, Accept It, Pursue it