They say that time changes things, but you actually have to change them yourself.
I learned that this year. I learned that nothing will change or give the appearance of change if I keep looking at it the same way. I have to be the change agent. I have to decide that enough is enough and let stuff go. I have to be ready, willing, and able. There are some days that I accomplish this very well. There are other days when I don't. At least I know that I have to power to do it. The choice is mine. And the choice is also yours. Be empowered, make the change. Don't wait for me or someone else to do it and I won't either. They might not do it fast enough for either of us.