For a very long time, no one told African American women that they could fly, so there are very few of them as commercial pilots. This website is for inspiring women to fly. Flying being defined as succeeding. Succeeding defined however you decide. We are simply here to tell you sistergirlfriend, YOU CAN FLY!
Nothing lasts forever, not success and not misfortune. There are days when the bad times seem to last much longer than the good ones. I pray that my good times and bad times are equal. I don't wish for more good than bad. Equal will be just fine because then at least I would know that something better this way comes, eventually. We should not dwell on the negative things.
Look at misfortune the same way you look at success - Don't Panic! Do your best and forget the consequences.